Great reads from both of you although I do think Cecilia has it right on the O as in Orgasm The toughest part is getting the woman to relax enough and not try so hard to have an orgasm. As Cecilia states this does take time as well as a lot of patience for both the man and the woman. Many women have what I call a spirt orgasm and what I mean by this is that they try so hard that they come to a time when they have to do something and that being the spirt, just a very small orgasm. I found that getting the woman to completely relax and forget about the spirt and just enjoy the ride etc. and when the time really comes and your woman allows the big O it becomes a squirt which is much better than a spirt.

Good Luck to the couple that wrote in. I also suggest that you continue to frequent Couples Reviews as I think you will find a lot of good reads as I have.

Couples Reviews Rocks in my book. Good work Alain and Cecilia!

James