Thanks so much for the question– very good one, in fact.

I assume since you posted publically, you don’t mind me responding publically so other folks might benefit from the information. (If you’re not comfortable, just email us at webmaster@couplesreviews.com and I’ll make it private.)

I’d say you’re about right that it’s not entirely true and not entirely false that things don’t go back to ‘normal’ down there. Fisting IS a game of practice– the first few times, the fist might not even go in as the pussy slowly learns to stretch. And once my pussy ‘learned’ to stretch, it’s definitely been easier for it to remember how to relax and let it stretch again. In other words, you do loosen up downstairs.

That said, it doesn’t mean your wife will be flapping around and clapping when she walks. Make sure she starts doing her Kegel exercises afterwards. I’ve also found that comfortable Ben-Wa type of balls are a great (and stimulating!) alternative to Kegels because you’re constantly keeping the muscle tight and not having to actively exercise them.

I reviewed these “Smart Balls” here: http://couplesreviews.com/2006/04/08/smart-balls-sex-toy-review/

After using them more regularly, I’ve found they’re extremely comfortable, sanitary, and arousing. But shop around and see if there’s something that better suits your fancy.

Alain doesn’t have any complaints about the size of my vagina since we’ve started fisting, if that helps at all.

As always, please let us know if you have any more questions. Good luck, and thanks for visiting the site!

thanks!