Couples Reviews

So tonight was bondage and domination night in our household, and my lovely Cecilia donned what I feel is one of her more naughty, sexy outfits. This was somewhat unexpected, as I moseyed into the bedroom to get some socks and WHOA, there she is all dolled up for me in black, 6″ heels (stripper shoes, fuck-me pumps, etc), a black vinyl dress (no undies underneath), and a black leather collar with silver rings around it. She’s also holding a rawhide cat-o-nine-tales whip.

Nice.

There is hardly anything sexier than seeing your wife dressed like this for you, and as I stood there, jaw agape, she moved towards me and whispered into my ear, “Well, let’s get this started.” Hey, who am I to argue?

6″ heels are called stripper shoes for a reason. They elongate a woman’s legs and make them deliciously appealing, and there is nothing sexier than your wife or girlfriend squatting down in front of you, sucking you off while wearing them. There is just *something* about the way a woman’s curves are accentuated by the angle of her foot, and though I haven’t worn them before (seriously), I can only image that it’s *easier* for a woman to stay comfortable in a squatting position when she’s got the support these types of shoes provide. They also provide mighty convenient “handle bars” for when you’ve got her in missionary position [see photo], giving you extra control in pretzeling her around as you see fit.

The vinyl minidress makes exceptionally kinky sounds when you crinkle it. If you’re into a little kink, the sound of vinyl (or leather) is music to your ears. Sure is to mine!

The whip… ahh, the whip. It’s a simple, 12″ plastic rod with a bundle of imitation-rawhide, 8″ strips on the end. Sort of a cat-o-nine-tails, but without the torturous ball bearings at the end. If your lady’s got you sideways on the bed, and deep-throating you like Cecilia was doing, then the whip isn’t all that easy to hit her ass with (unless you’re far more coordinated than me). If you can get your wrist action down though, you can nail it. I managed to swing her around and give her a raging orgasm doggy-style, and found it much easier to land rhythmic smacks on her now-pink ass cheeks from this position.

The collar…. very useful for taking some control. Use cautiously though, because as we learned, long hair can easily get caught (ouch!) in the buckle if you spin it around on her neck. Since it’s got silver ring-hoops on it, it’s perfect for hooking a finger to gently jerk your S&M-friendly partner around with.

Cecilia tends to like being dominated at times, and when she breaks out the collar, I know it’s time for a little teasing and torturing… as in “no, you can’t suck my cock now……. no, not yet….. oh OKAY yes now you can suck my cock… WHOOPS, almost had it here didn’t ya?…. well you’re going to have to WAIT a minute…. oh OKAY…” And so on and so forth. Not a bad way to spend an evening with your loved one, eh?

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I love surprising Alain. So when he was in the other room, I slipped into the bedroom and rummaged through my sex toy drawers. Tonight, I decided, would be bondage night. We’ve both been working a lot lately, and I figured a good whipping should bring us out of our computer stupors.

First I chose a very cute, very sexy vinyl dress that I haven’t worn in a while. No panties.

Then, my shoes. These shoes are worthy of some attention here. They are 6-inch, black strappy fuck-me shoes. I highly recommend this brand, Ellie. The soles are padded suede, so they’re about as comfortable as 6-inch heels can get.

Ladies, if you don’t own a pair of stripper shoes, you need to find a pair you like. I promise, really high heels like this make your legs look incredible, no matter how you feel about the rest of your body. Your legs look a mile long and your entire body looks thinner and sexier. It’s the best $50 you’ll ever spend for your sexual self esteem. And guys, this makes a great gift. Your lady will thank you once she sees how great her legs look.

For the bondage theme, Alain and I used some fuzzy cuffs, a collar, and a whip. The cuffs we used are relatively tame, but they’re affordable and fun for people who aren’t hardcore into bondage. These cuffs come with a key, but it’s really just for show — the cuffs have a safety latch that you can push up and they come undone. They actually feel pretty sturdy, considering how inexpensive they are.

The collar is my favorite. It’s thick leather with an adjustable buckle and D-rings that are meant for a leash, but are good just to grab onto with your fingers, too. One thing to watch out for is if you have long hair and the collar rotates on your neck– the buckle got caught in my long hair. Ouch. So keep your hair pulled back (or have him pull your hair).

The whip is pretty intense. It looks so innocent, so innocuous. But this little sucker packs a good sting. Between the spankings and the whipping, my ass was cherry red. You can also be more gentle and tickles the strands on the whip along your pussy and asshole. That feels very good.

Overall, I have no complaints about any of the items we used for bondage night (well, except for getting my hair caught in the collar). Guys and gals, the shoes are a must. In order of quality and fun factor, my recommendations are first the collar, then the whip, and finally the fuzzy cuffs (you can always use men’s ties or stockings for restraint).

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